fix(sdnq): reset dynamo caches at model unload

Dynamo tracks a lifetime recompile counter per compiled function that
freed models leave climbing while their graphs and guards die, and the
compiled dequant runs fullgraph, so crossing the accumulated limit is a
hard FailOnRecompileLimitHit instead of an eager fallback; enough model
or quant switches in one process got there. unload_model_weights now
calls reset_compile_caches when the compiled dequant is active, dropping
the dead graphs and the counters in the same sweep as the unload gc.
Raised limits only move the wall; the reset removes it.

- scoped to the model unload branch: the reset is global and must only
  run when the graphs' owner is being discarded
- regression test trips the wall under a lowered limit and recovers
  through the same helper the unload path calls

modules/sd_models.py

@@ -1573,6 +1573,8 @@ def unload_model_weights(op='model'):
             disable_offload(model_data.sd_model)
             move_model(model_data.sd_model, 'meta')
         model_data.sd_model = None
+        from modules.sdnq.common import reset_compile_caches
+        reset_compile_caches() # dead compiled-dequant graphs and their lifetime recompile counters otherwise accumulate across switches
         devices.torch_gc(force=True, reason='unload')
         log.debug(f'Unload {op}: {memory_stats()} fn={fn}')
     elif (op == 'refiner') and model_data.sd_refiner: